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Well, unfortunately one of my dogs died yesterday, she had been sick for a couple weeks and deteriorated alot the last couple of days. Since she started getting worse my other dog has been acting very strange. She paces round and round the table and most of the time she ignores you when you call her to stop her walking round and round and round the table!! Today she improved slightly by letting some people stroke her and today she has come up to me and wanted me to stroke when yesterday she just yelped if someone approached her. But she hasnt eaten her food for days. Shes actually scared of it!! She walks towards the bowl very hesitantly then walks straight passed it. doesnt even sniff it closely. Just now i was eating an apple and she LOVES apples so i tried to give it to her. i put it on the side and called her over. but at first she turned her head in to me and wouldnt look at it or sniff it. after about 15 mins she started to get more interested. i could tell she wanted it really because she LOVES apples. so i teased her with it to get her wanting it. when she stiffed it i moved it away then she came closer then i walked away with the apple and she followed and looked like she wanted it so i put it down then she finally picked it up in her mouth walked for about 1 second chucked the apple on the floor and yelped!!! then ran out the room.. she looks so sad i just want to help her.
any ideas what to do???
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Tags:Acting·Apple·Apples·Couple Of Days·Couple Weeks·Dogs·Paces·Sad·Stroke
My nineteen year old daughter has had a rough few years and has gone through a lot of hardship. She was previously in an abusive relationship and was arrested along with her boyfriend at the time for domestic assault while in college. She has also been evicted because that same boyfriend stiffed her out of rent, and as a result she was evicted. Fortunately, my daughter is a good kid; she is a senior in college, and she recently got married to a sailor. They are currently looking for an apartment or condo in Jacksonville, fl and have been having some trouble. He gets BAH specifically for housing and makes really good money for a 22 year old. What are their options as far as renting a condo or apartment? what does the process consist of? while she get the opportunity to explain her situation? Its not like they cant pay because they are military and have verified income.
so the place she wants to live at has a policy where the decision is confirmed by a third party. Does she have less of a chance?
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Tags:Abusive Relationship·Apartment·Domestic Assault·Good Kid·Jacksonville Fl·Money·Opportunity·Third Party
Where is the spirit of Laurel Canyon,
who will write songs for the new revolution?
We left off flowers worn in the hair
for piercings and ink and a cold hard stare.
When backed in a corner, the rabbit can scratch
out an eye and you blink, and the other will match.
Little furry cotton-cute creatures are swift
and don’t bury bodies; they leave nemesis stiffed.
Outlined in chalk, no more hops with the scotch.
The best of the batch is still product they botched.
So they put it out as designer enhancer,
as Cialis has always made men quite good dancers.
When he dips and her heart skips a beat he takes in hand,
her on the spot seizure, thus making Mal Grand!
Free love has lost meaning, in fact its time has passed.
Laurel Canyon echoes now with shotgun blast.
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Tags:Blink·Canyon Echoes·Chalk·Cialis·Cute Creatures·Dips·Free Love·Good Dancers·Heart Skips A Beat·Hops·Laurel Canyon·Nemesis·New Revolution·Piercings·Rabbit·Scotch·Seizure·Shotgun Blast·Stiffed·Swift
My 4 month kitten has high fever and his body is stiffing up.He is in great pain,and unable to move his stiffed parts like his front leg. His head keeps falling backwards.I don’t understand what is wrong with him. He was playing outside,then at night he was shivering with high fever.
What should I do?
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I answered an ad on Craigslist for an apartment (it was called a "sublet" but really it was a woman renting a room in her house.) The sublet was for a four month period. She requested first and last month’s rent for security deposit. I have no signed rental agreement, just email exchanges. I gave her a check for 00 for first months rent, and 00 for last month’s rent. We didn’t get a long and she began to intimidate me to move out before the agreed time. When I didn’t respond to her intimidation, she brought home 2 cats. This was in complete violation of our verbal agreement of no animals. The cats were rife with flees and I am very allergic to them (I have asthma).
When I objected to her introducing cats, she told me to vacate. I told her that I could not vacate on such short notice, not without my last months security deposit in anycase. She agreed (and I have this in email). She said she would give it to me on the day I had my furniture out. So, that day came and I was ready to move out (keeping my end of the agreement), but she did not show up and she did not return my security deposit.
I had to borrow money from a friend and it was very distressing and caused me to miss work as well. I did write her (email) and demanded she return my deposit or I would take her to small claims. She never did and never provided me with anything in writing stating why she was holding my deposit. Fortunately, I wrote on the check "for last month’s security deposit." And I have that with her signature.
My only concern is, she evicted me on May 3 and I moved out on May 12th. The final month of my four month rental was to be May 15 - June 15. But I only have email to corroborate my eviction…(and friends who would vouch for me because I stayed at their house.) But she is such a pathological liar and very deviant, I’m worried that she will say that *I* didn’t give *her* 30 days notice. I mean can she pretend like I was the one who left without notice (even though she evicted me) and therefore that’s why she’s keeping my last month’s rent?
In hindsight, I suppose legally I could have refused to leave, but once she introduced the cats she created a hostile environment, or one that I couldn’t stay in for health reasons. One of her cats also got into my room and clawed my airbed, basically destroying it (it completely deflated and I can’t patch all the holes). So I am also suing her for the cost of that bed.
Our court date is set for next week and I’m worried that she has something up her sleeve because why would anyone want to go through court? Why not just give me back my deposit as she promised? I have no doubt that she is capable of perjury. And since she is a very attractive woman, (and some sort of motivational speaker) she may have the upper hand with the judge.
One last thing, when I made the final demand to return my deposit (I think I made 6 altogether), she strung me along some more. She sent me email saying, Where should I send it? I gave her the address to send it. Of course, she didn’t send it, stiffed me again…(buying time I guess) just like she did when she was a no-show on my move out day.
Would really appreciate any help or insight about what I can expect in court.
Thank you!
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Tags:Animals·Apartment·Asthma·Craigslist·Email Friends·Eviction·Furniture·Intimidation·Introducing Cats·Money·Pathological Liar·Quot·Rent·Rental Agreement·Renting A Room·Roommate·Security Deposit·Signature·Small Claims·Verbal Agreement
I usually pay with my credit card then write a big line through the spot that asks for tip. That way they can not write something in. I also will not go back to the restaurant for awhile to make sure I don’t get the same server twice or if I do get the server they wont remember me. I know some people that will leave cash. If the service was really good they will round up to the nearest dollar. If the service was average they will pull out their pocket change and leave the exact amount. If the service was bad they leave less than the total on the bill so the server has to make up the difference. If it was legal, I would short change the server to. I like using my card because I get cash back. How do you go about stiffing a server? I think the worst part is when you are leaving and they know you stiffed them. Like they will pick up the check and look as you walk out or they bring back your credit card slip and see you dont add a tip and walk out. The looks they give you is priceless.
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Tags:Credit Card·Dollar·Pocket Change·Priceless
to post naked/sexually explicit pics of your ex on the internet?
My most recent serious ex, basically did me pretty wrong when we broke up. Besides trying to smear my reputation (somewhat successfully), she stiffed me on money I was legitimately owed for joint purchases as well as refused to return/threw out an item that was of great importance to me and irreplaceable.
Now I ask you? Since she is now living with another guy, and has recently had a baby with him, would now be a good time to drop this bomb on her? Also, should I send them to an online site or just mail them to the bf?
I know many will say I should be the bigger person and that I’m bitter but it’s not true. It’s not even a matter of anger at this point, but principle. I mean just because a person has recovered from a crime (ex. rape) doesn’t mean that should be tied to the perpetrators punishment, agreed?
Dark eyes - how is pro-actively wronging a person "revenge" especially when it’s unprovoked?? I know you are an unbalanced woman apologist, but that’s even ridiculous coming from you…..
Rio & Jeannie - how is what I am doing in any way illegal??
Savvy - I see what you are saying…I can’t imagine it would make for happy times at their house talking about them, but you are right - probably more bang for the buck going online with them…..
Oot n - how could this possibly bite me in the ass??
Foxtrot - what can I say? I’m a snake in the grass….and I COMPLETELY disagree I have no right to those pictures.
Rowdy - this is what I hear: "cricket, cricket"
dark eyes - no offense, but you can’t be that dense.
1) the stuff is gone. Nothing would get it back.
2) I am debunking your claim of how she got "revenge" on me when she basically just wronged me, unprovoked.
3) You are giving a typical irrational answer. You only think it’s wrong to send the naked pic b/c you wouldn’t want it done to you, not based on the merits or facts. Typical woman thinking….
Oh Rilly - I’m not angry at all….I look at it more as justice served, or paying your debt to society. If you commit a serious , even if the victim forgives you, you have to do time in jail.
Serena - maybe, but not in this case I don’t think…..there are clear and justifiable reasons why my ex deserves payback, yet dark eyes answers we mostly a moral judgment directed at me.
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Tags:Amp·Anger·Apologist·Bf·Bomb·Cricket Cricket·Dark Eyes·Debunking·Foxtrot·Good Time·Happy Times·Jeannie·Merits·Naked Pic·Principle·Rape·Reputation·Revenge·Snake In The Grass·Typical Woman
I had a bidder who stiffed me for 0 and I want to leave a negative feedback such as "DID NOT PAY - IGNORES EMAILS F-" Yeah I know sellers can only give positive feedback but thats what I can say in the comments.
But someone says they were suspended for doing that. Is this true????
What pisses me off is that he bid in the finals seconds and outbid a guy who I think wouldve paid immediately. Then after he stiffs me he goes on a buying spree with 6 auctions or more. Its not like he has no money as he boughy a 0 judo uniform or something.
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Tags:Auctions·Bid·Buying Spree·Ebay·Judo Uniform·Money·Negative Feedback·Positive Feedback·Stiffs
I’m with US Bank in Colorado and have been with them for about 6-7 months. I’ve never had issues with them until recently. I made the mistake of accidently going .21 over in my account. I am NOT making excuses, I REALLY thought I had the money in the account. I don’t use checks, and I figured if I was at a balance that couldn’t cover the .00, my debit card wouldn’t have worked. It went through, so I thought the money was in the account. Now, I’ve gotten a card in the mail from them saying I was charged a .00 overdraft and will be charged up to .00 every 7 days until it is payed or until my account is closed. 4 days ago, I made THE worse mistake I could ever make….I trusted my cousin and his girlfriend to go to US Banks ATM and make a deposit for me of 0 that my mom lent me….I figured the money was in there, cause when I texted him, he said yeah, he deposited it and brought my debit card back. Well, I needed gas and groceries, so I withdrew 0 at US Bank’s ATM. Well, today I logged into my account and loe and behold, my "cousin" didn’t deposit the money cause now I have 4 overdraft’s of .00 each and other fees incrued…I’m up to 5 negative in my account…I don’t want the bank to shut my account cause that’ll look bad that they had to do it, but I just want to know, can you shut a checking with that much overdraft, BUT make payments towards it? The reason I want to close it is so I won’t be charged that every 7 days….There would be no point in making payments on the account, if those are gonna be taken out…There’s no purpose, the account will stay in the negative unless I come up with the full negative amount, which I know I can’t right now….I really like US Bank, but I feel I have no choice. And I am NOT going to stiff them. I will make payments, I don’t want this on my credit…And even now, that money is NOT in the account. I feel my cousin stiffed me on my money, which blows….And that’s something I will have to deal with too….
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Tags:7 Months·Atm·Banks·Checking Account·Checks·Close Account·Cousin·Debit Card·Girlfriend·Groceries·Lent·Loe·Mail·Mistake·Mom·Money Cause·Overdraft Fees·Reason·Us Bank
I tend to use my credit card because that way I get cash back. I write a big line through the spot where it asks to add on a tip. This way the stupid server can’t write themself a tip in. I also tend not to come back to the same place for several months to avoid them messing with my food. I also have no problem handing them the credit card slip back and looking them straight in the face and saying "you dont like being stiffed? Then get a different job!" I have friends who if the service is really really good. They will round the check up. For example, if their bill is .78, and the waitress was awesome. They will leave her .00. They usually carry around exact change so if the service was average, they leave the exact amount of the check. If the service was bad, they short change the server which I think is like stealing and illegal so I don’t do it. For example, if the check was .78 and the server sucked, they will leave her or something. What do you think is the best way to avoid tipping a server when eating out at a restaurant? Also, dont bother telling me how rude I am or what a jerk I am. I could really care less what you think and your opinion will not change my tipping habits. Just answer the question. And, "eat at home" doesn’t count. Read the question again if you can’t figure that out or just drink a gallon of bleach because like restaurant wait staff… you are too stupid to deserve life.
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Tags:Bleach·Credit Card·Exact Change·Face·Friends·Jerk·Job·Stupid Server·Tipping·Waitress